Anxious Mama

Hey new mama, can we talk?

I didn’t expect to struggle after baby. But I did. Hard. He had a few minor health issues in the beginning, and although he was okay, I realized quickly that our little man wasn’t invincible.

Which I couldn’t accept.

I needed to protect him, so I grew anxious over everything: who touched him, where he went, what he ate, how he slept, what sorts of germs might lurk in his vicinity. It was painful, and I felt crazy.

Then I learned this is a thing — postpartum anxiety (PPA). And it’s actually really common. It’s just that nobody talks about it.

Until one friend did.

Similar fears consumed her with baby #1, and she let me know. She also said I’d feel normal again. I held on so tightly to those words — they carried me through.

Today, it’s my passion to talk about this stuff. I was lucky to have that friend, and I know that not everyone does.

But it goes beyond postpartum anxiety

Being a new mama without postpartum anxiety can be really freakin’ hard, too. Not many people talk about that either.

Many of us feel guilty: A baby is a gift, and we need to be grateful. And that’s true. But it doesn’t mean being a mama is never challenging, and that we can’t be real with each other.

After all, when we’re not real we just promote isolation — allow one another to feel alone in random mom fears, or in living a life that doesn’t assemble into some beautiful mosaic for Instagram.

But guess what, new mama? We all go through the tough stuff — it’s all part of this glorious gig.

I’m hoping this blog will share the stories that prove it.

So hey new mama, can we talk?


  1. I struggled with postpartum anxiety and had severe postpartum OCD after my first child. I struggled with terrible thoughts, which I knew wasn’t me. It took years to finally be in a good place once again. I’m in a mental health nurse practitioner program in hopes to help women who struggle with the same things I did. I’ve found that most don’t have a true appreciation for their mental health until they experience a distressing mental health crisis firsthand. Thank you for sharing your experience and shedding some much needed light on this topic. Wonderfully written!


    1. I’m so sorry for the late reply! Thank you so much for reaching out, for the kind words and for sharing your story. I can definitely relate. I love that you’re hoping to help women who struggle with the same things! It’s inspiring. Wishing you all the best with your program!


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